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Allow your children to create the life of their dreams

A vivid imagination is one of the most precious things about a child’s life. It is the ability to make believe or create their ideal moments without any notion that it isn’t really possible. They can be anyone and do anything.

And I think it is interesting that when children are young, we would be asking questions like: “What do you want to be when you grow up?”

The replies would be as diverse as a policeman, a professional sportsperson, an astronaut or a dancer, and we would encourage them regardless of their answer.

Yet ask a child this same question when they are in high school, and we take a completely different opinion about their choices. We question the money they would make, their ability to succeed or tell them their dreams are not realistic.

We should be encouraging our children to reach for the stars. They should know that with dedication and hard work, they can achieve their dreams. Of course you are able to guide them with your own experiences, but do it in an encouraging way. Teach them things like the importance of setting smaller goals on their way to the top, but never tell them it will be impossible.

Because ultimately, one of the best gifts you can give a child is the encouragement to create the life of their dreams.

 

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Melz's picture

My 15 year old daughter can't make up her mind what she want's to be when she leaves school. It seems to change every month.

first she wanted to be a cowgirl, then a cartoon artist, then a fashion designer, then a kindy teacher, now its a hairdresser. And thats all just this year.

As long as she has a job and is independent, i really dont mind what it is she chooses in the end.

maree's picture

yes Iagree to allow children to have there dreams as I had when i was a child .

Nick's picture

I can remember asking my 7 y/o neice what she wants to be when she grows up- her responce: "I want to be a ballerina or a rockstar or an artist"- I was so amazed with her answer and believe she can be anything.
Kids should be encouraged to do what feels right for them as they are ultamatly the ones who have to live with their decision, but i also believe they need to be guided- thats why they have parents