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'If I had my life to live over' by Erma Bombeck


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The following is written by a lady called Erma Bombeck. She was a witty American writer, who died of a kidney disease at the age of 69. These were her words in her dying days:

IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.

I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.

I would have talked less and listened more.

I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.

I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.

I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.

I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.

I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.

I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains.

I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.

I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.

Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.

When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner." There would have been more "I love you's." More "I'm sorry's."

But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute...look at it and really see it .. live it .and never give it back. Stop sweating the small stuff.

Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more, or who's doing what.

Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us.

Let's think about what God HAS blessed us with. And what we are doing each day to promote ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally. I hope you all have a blessed day.

 

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Katten's picture

Sometimes we all need a little reminder of what is important in life. Smiling

Cherish the ones' you love ..... Feel blessed for all we have, HEALTH, Air to Breath and Food to Eat, Love of our families. Smiling

We all have the power to stop and smell the roses and to enjoy the life we have. We just have to make the time to do it. Smiling

caz's picture

Thankyou this makes me cherish what i have in my life.

Ren's picture

BEAUTIFUL!

Nick's picture

you know something- i think i needed to read that this morning, i needed reminding that life is here to be lived so i need to give myself the best chance to live it. have been lazy the last few days and was actually starting to convince myslef that i had lost enough weight. But no, i have a whole life to live and will get out there and live it.

maree's picture

Yes a very lovely saying she wrote .My mother writes poam I suppose you would call this poam.Some people have great talent