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Created: 4 March 2008 - 1:52am
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Owner: kamatai
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in 2006 I lost my best friend whom I was talking to at 10p.m. at night and the next day phoned me and said she had died in her sleep, I was devestated, then one month later our beautiful 11 year old lab/kelpie died and to top the year off one month after the doggy my daughter 41 died. I wouldn't wish it on any one. how did you cope? love to hear from you without being too morbid .xx

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baby_face's picture

SPECIAL

I doodle a special poem for the anninversary of my late wifes death this was last years special doodle
...US...

Sparkling angel help us please
need somehow to find our belief
your strength and courage we`ve lost somehow
we just don't know what to do right now

Somehow we`ve managed to get this far
living on memories and healing our scars
I hope we've done you very proud
our sparkling angel up in the cloud
.........Robert & Family...........

...WE...

How can we love an angel from here
she`s never there but always near
close by my side watching her brood
seeing us all so proud we`ve stood

Give us please our angel my sweet
a little more of what we seek
to make you proud of us each day
as we walk in your sparkling spray
........Robert & Family...........

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ONE OF A KIND

...ONE OF A KIND...

Me I'm special, just one of a kind
unique by nature, an open mind
got my opinions and points of view
believe in something inside each of you

Maybe it's hiding waiting for a day
someone special comes your way
never look for the hidden wealth
it`ll find you waiting by yourself

Were all unique, no twin or pair
long or short or have no hair
so live you special people I shout
and your uniqueness will shine on out
...............Robert................

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INVISIBLE

...INVISIBLE...

Cannot see through it, cannot smell it
but oh my god I can feel it
a little thing called belief
gives me hope and relief

Same goes for many things invisible to many
if only we could bottle it, smiles would be plenty
everyone has the inner sight
of that shining invisible light

How do we capture this invisible light
we wonder and think, day and night
I have found that invisible light
inner strength through my fight

Can't remember when or where
maybe because it was always there
hiding inside each of us
an invisible light from dawn till dusk
...............Robert.................

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STEPS

...STEPS...

Tiny steps I take each day
going forward in my own way
in my own time I step forward slowly
an angel beside me making it less lonely

Every step is worth the wait
angels pushing with their weight
guiding each step with a tender nudge
making it easy each step to judge

It doesn't matter how many steps I've got
just want to make it to the top
then my angel will make sure
that my smile will stay secure
...........Robert.............

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GLOWING

...GLOWING...

An angel past my way before
and looked at me and saw me sore
it soothed and melted all the pain
and now I'm left glowing again

It touched me gently with it's angel wings
to remember a loved one and all those things
it can't cure what's left behind
glowing embers in my mind

I'm glowing inside can feel it's effects
feeling on air and not needing my spex
just day to day stuff that we all take for granted
I got a glow from a loved one that's departed
.....................Robert.................

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TY

Thank you ,I didnt realise it was helping the healing procees for a few days then it just all knitted together, many people seem unable to say how they feel after a loss, I'm lucky that i managed to find a way of getting things out of my head that may have drove me crazy.
Many poems are feelings and thoughts on many a bad and occasional good day, the good days now take the edge off the occasional bad day.
............Robert

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Thanks for sharing with us Robert. It seems writting poems is an outlet a lot of us turn to when we lose a loved one.

I know I wrote all sorts of things when Josh died, most of them he would have laughed his head off at me for. They are shockers but they came straight from my heart and at the time I obviously needed to get it all out and that was how it came out for me even if it wasn't very good. *lol* Smiling

I hope coming here helps your healing Robert. Talking about our loss is always good, it stops us from turning in on ourselves and wallowing. Good luck. Smiling

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SPARKLING ANGELS

...SPARKLING ANGELS...

Sparkling angels glitter the skies upstair
at night we see them and we stare
at the glitter that they scatter up above
remembering all those that they loved

Sparkling angels look after us all
watching us stumble and sometimes fall
they pick us up with their heavenly touch
glistening and glowing ever so much

Sparkling angels help us please
set our minds, put them at ease
we won't forget what you meant to us
when you were here and made a fuss

Sparkling angels heal the pain
of people lost in the rain
of others, please give them hope
of a sparkling angels unlimited scope
...............Robert................

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ANGELS

...ANGELS...

Angels upstairs wear their wings
look down on us and joy they bring
flying high and sprinkling some magic
on us people that's life was tragic

Spreading a smile and some good luck too
the angels are watching over me and you
you may not think it at the time
but soon you'll feel so divine

So don't forget on the worst of dayz
these angels look with an awesome gaze
at your heart and soul inside
magic dust they leave behind
..........Robert............

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TY

Many thanks to you for reminding me, have joined both "grief" and "inspiration" and hope it will make a tiny difference.......Robert

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